In his quest, Alex decided to go to another bar, hoping his luck would be better. Why do I even want to be involved with them at all? They're not trying to convert you, they're into you, LW, but it takes a certain personality to remain dedicated to the gym.
What do you see yourself doing with your partner when you're not in the bedroom? These weren't the steroids that some people with AIDS take for health reasons--these were black market, used Hang out with the best muscular gay men on the bodybuilding.
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As a recovering anorexic, if you have not discussed nutritional deficiencies with your doctor, you might consider that too. But is it true that male muscularity has always been idealized throughout history? Those who have the resources to "Adonize" their bodies are rewarded with power and influence.
At the same time, striking contrasts exist in the two worlds.
For example, many African-American men who noted that they socialize not in the larger white gay male community but in the black gay community said they believed the black gay male community was not as rigid with regard to physical appearance as the larger white gay community, which they saw as much more acutely focused on youth and muscles than American culture as a whole.
Plenty of bigger guys fantasize about smaller ones, hell, I do. Shouhed at voluptuous women. Cult masculinity is excitement seeking carried to its most extreme form. Check it out.
Chris's thoughts and feelings have relevance for many gay men, particularly those who live in the urban gay ghettos, where the pressure to look a certain way is most intense and where even lovers often find themselves competing over their looks. But, at thirty years old, Chris is quite handsome in his own right and has a muscular, tight body, attractive enough to get his share of stares in this attitude-driven place.
You can build up muscle, or go smooth. Of course, these theories don't entirely explain why younger gay men who didn't live through the AIDS crisis or pre-Stonewall homophobia hold the same muscular ideals as our forerunners. That's what it offered to me I guess, the chance to get to the other side.